Love In A Cold Climate by Nancy Mitford

'Love in a Cold Climate' by Nancy MitfordI love this book. It’s a masterpiece of social comedy and it deserves to be more widely read, so that’s why I’ve decided to rave about it today. Imagine Pride and Prejudice set in the 1930s, and you’ll have some idea of the plot. Not that it’s really about the plot – which, for the record, involves posh English girls attempting to find suitable husbands. The real joy of this novel lies in the characters, particularly Lady Montdore, the wildly ambitious mother of beautiful Polly, who is ‘destined for an exceptional marriage’. Lady Montdore is a monster – self-centred, snobbish, bossy, greedy, completely deluded as to her value in the world – but she’s a very entertaining monster. She provides the author with numerous opportunities to send up the English aristocracy, as in this scene, when Lady Montdore berates our poor narrator, Fanny, the wife of a professor:

“‘You know, Fanny,’ she went on, ‘it’s all very well for funny little people like you to read books the whole time, you only have yourselves to consider, whereas Montdore and I are public servants in a way, we have something to live up to, tradition and so on, duties to perform, you know, it’s a very different matter . . . It’s a hard life, make no mistake about that, hard and tiring, but occasionally we have our reward – when people get a chance to show how they worship us, for instance, when we came back from India and the dear villagers pulled our motor car up the drive. Really touching! Now all you intellectual people never have moments like that.'”

Of course, things don’t go to plan, and Polly rebels in a manner calculated to drive her mother mad. This sets the scene for the introduction of another wonderful character, Cedric, the heir to the Montdore fortune. It was unusual enough in 1949 (the year the book was first published) for a novel to mention homosexuality, but it was revolutionary to have a happy and openly gay character who charms nearly everyone he meets. He even manages to dazzle the Boreleys, a family notorious for its intolerance:

“‘Well, so then Norma was full of you, just now, when I met her out shopping, because it seems you travelled down from London with her brother Jock yesterday, and now he can literally think of nothing else.’

‘Oh, how exciting. How did he know it was me?’

‘Lots of ways. The goggles, the piping, your name on your luggage. There is nothing anonymous about you, Cedric . . . He says you gave him hypnotic stares through your glasses.’

‘The thing is, he did have rather a pretty tweed on.’

‘And then, apparently, you made him get your suitcase off the rack at Oxford, saying you are not allowed to lift heavy things.’

‘No, and nor am I. It was very heavy, not a sign of a porter as usual, I might have hurt myself. Anyway, it was all right because he terribly sweetly got it down for me.’

‘Yes, and now he’s simply furious that he did. He says you hypnotised him.’

‘Oh, poor him, I do so know the feeling.'”

Then there are Fanny’s eccentric relatives – her wild Uncle Matthew, vague Aunt Sadie, hypochondriacal stepfather Davey, and exuberant little Radlett cousins – with many of these characters inspired by Nancy Mitford’s real family. In addition, the author provides a wickedly funny look at English politics, fashion, marriage and child rearing.

'The Pursuit of Love' and 'Love in a Cold Climate' by Nancy MitfordLove in a Cold Climate is actually the second book narrated by Fanny. The first, The Pursuit of Love, was published in 1945. I hesitate to call it a prequel, because that would suggest you need to read it first, and I don’t think you do. It stretches over a longer time period, and is mostly the story of Fanny’s cousin and best friend, Linda (Lady Montdore, Polly and Cedric don’t make an appearance in this one, unfortunately). Some readers prefer this first book to the second, but I think it really depends on whether you regard Linda as a tragic romantic heroine or a spoiled, self-centred brat. As you’ve probably guessed, I’m in the latter camp (I really can’t forgive Linda’s treatment of her hapless daughter). I also think this book ends too abruptly – as though the author suddenly got tired of typing. However, there’s a lot of enjoyment in the descriptions of the Radlett family, so if you adore Love in a Cold Climate, you’ll probably like The Pursuit of Love as well. There’s also a BBC television series based on both books, but I haven’t seen it (and it doesn’t appear to be available in Australia).

I’ve previously written about one of Nancy Mitford’s earlier novels, Wigs on the Green (1935), which is interesting for historical and political reasons, but doesn’t have much literary merit. I cannot recommend The Blessing (1951) at all, because it’s awful. However, it and Don’t Tell Alfred (1960) have recently been re-released with lovely illustrated covers.

'Noblesse Oblige' edited by Nancy MitfordI can recommend Noblesse Oblige: An Enquiry into the Identifiable Characteristics of the English Aristocracy, a biased but very entertaining collection of essays and cartoons about ‘Upper-Class English Usage’, edited by Nancy Mitford and including contributions from Evelyn Waugh and John Betjeman. Laura Thompson has also written a biography of Nancy Mitford called Life in a Cold Climate, which discusses all her books and the influences for her novels.

See also: Meet The Mitfords

More favourite 1930s/1940s British novels:

1. The Cazalet Chronicles by Elizabeth Jane Howard
2. The Charioteer by Mary Renault
3. The Friendly Young Ladies by Mary Renault

8 thoughts on “Love In A Cold Climate by Nancy Mitford”

  1. Dear Michelle! I have only just finished reading your wonderful Montmaray books (and I am in love, LOVE!) and now find myself in that strange quandary of desperately waiting for the third…usually I always have all the books, and early too. *starts pacing, biting nails*

    Basically, I am currently enjoying mostly literature from between the wars (both written and based in) and am existing on a diet of Evelyn Waugh, Nancy Mitford, George Orwell and Anais Nin. I also devoured Amor Towles’ The Rules of Civility and your good books.

    The BBC Love in a Cold Climate is very wonderful, Fanny certainly speaks with a mouth full of marbles, but Cedric and Lady Montdore are delicious.

    1. That sounds like a delicious literary diet! Did you read that recent book on Evelyn Waugh and George Orwell, about how Waugh spent his life pretending he’d been at Eton, and Orwell spent his life pretending he hadn’t? I will have to check out The Rules of Civility. Oh, I really wish that Love in a Cold Climate DVD was available here!

      And I’m very glad you’ve enjoyed the Montmaray books so far! Book Three coming soon . . .

  2. I did read both Pursuit of Love and Love in a Cold Climate after you suggested them, Michelle, they came packaged together as one book from my library, and I loved both of them–even though I wasn’t a fan of Linda, there were moments of description in both books that had me laughing out loud. I am now embarrassed to admit that I found moments of enjoyment in The Blessing–I thought the descriptions of the French people were kind of hilarious. And I am also liking the obscure, out-of-print editions of Rumer Godden’s books for grown-ups (I like her children’s books, too), while they are not lighthearted in the least, I love her descriptions of tangled relationships and feelings. Thanks for the additional reading recommendations–I am going to hunt those down!

    1. Oh, good, I’m glad you enjoyed the Mitford books!

      I’m a huge fan of Rumer Godden, too – she was one of those rare novelists who could write for children and teenagers and adults. Have you read Anne Chisholm’s biography of her? She had such a fascinating life.

      Hmm, I must do a Stella Gibbons blog post soon . . .

      1. Looking forward to your thoughts on Stella Gibbons–I adore Cold Comfort Farm and identify with Flora Poste a lot. It’s all the eccentric relatives. I’m blessed with them.

        I haven’t had a chance to read any of the reissues of Gibbons other work but I think I’m going to put Nightingale Wood on my Read Soon list. I’ve had a copy since it was republished and it’s been languishing on Mt. TBR.

  3. So, I just finished the Cazalet Chronicles, I devoured all four books over the past week and a half and while I enjoyed the Mitford books, the Cazalet Chronicles were on a different level–I was deeply, deeply invested in the story and the characters. There were many moments in those books that had me choked up. I think Elizabeth Jane Howard does a wonderful job with conversations and, also, I couldn’t help but love all the descriptions of the food–even the mingy wartime rations! At first I was slightly irritated by all the by-ways she takes, when she takes time out to describe what’s happening to the minor characters in the story, but then I started getting interested in those, too (Miss Millament, in particular, is amazing, and the frequent descriptions of her stale, patched-together wardrobe are so vivid). Anyway, I just wanted to say that your British book recommendations, so far, have been terrific, and to get these book recommendations on top of discovering and reading your wonderful Montmaray books has been huge for me. Thank you so much!

    1. The Cazalet books are wonderful, aren’t they? Not terribly strong on plot, but lots of vivid description and very plausible characters. Elizabeth Jane Howard’s written quite a few novels – all the ones I’ve read have been about men behaving badly and women silently putting up with it (much like the Cazalet women), which does make me grind my teeth a bit. I keep wanting to reach into the books and give the poor women some feminist literature to read.

      Okay, now the pressure’s on to maintain my reputation as an effective British Book Recommender! Have you read The Friendly Young Ladies?

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